This has been a great week for us. Matt just finished his surgery rotation, and loved it. Now, we've got surgery as a plan unless he finds something he likes better. From what I know of Matt, though, when he has made up his mind, he has really made up his mind. Looks like Surgery is the answer for us. Lots of people think that it's a funny choice because of all the work involved, but for me, the important thing is that Matt is happy with his work. Plus, I think a lot of maligning of surgery is based in stereotypes and worse case scenarios. What people forget to mention is that surgeons are the ones called in when no one else can do anything...they're the ones that cause all the difference in the world with one procedure. The way Matt puts it, surgeons are the superheros of medicine, and what wife would begrudge her husband the chance to 'come and save the day!' every day???

The kids are great, too. I've been too tired this week to care about cleaning the house, so I've been down on the floor playing with the kids. Jack has pushed me around on his fire truck ride on toy. We've built towers out of legos. We've run trains around tracks. We've fingerpainted. We've played "chase" around the house, with Charlotte keeping up with surprising speed. Jack and I went to his new class together, too...his speech therapy small group session is structured very much like a preschool, but with only 5 little boys. We had a blast.

We also went to a Nationals baseball game last night, too...but more about that later; the kids are asking for juice. :)

my pearls

I recently emailed a friend of mine some very sappy advice about how to be a parent and a relatively sane woman at the same time. Although I went on (and on, and on) in the email, I came up with even more good stuff after I sent it. (my suspicions were correct; I am indeed brilliant.) In particular, I remembered my very favorite poem, one that Pres. Hinckley has quoted on several occasions:

You are the trip I did not take
You are the pearls I cannot buy
You are my blue italian lake
You are my piece of foreign sky.

I had this copied into my journal 3 days before Charlotte was born (Women's conference 2006) and after it, I wrote, "Jack or a trip to Europe? Charlotte or pearls? Come on." Seems like such an obvious and easy choice, doesn't it? More difficult are the more subtle ones I've had to make. Charlotte or a clean bathroom? Jack or a quiet trip to the grocery store? Charlotte or a few hundred bucks a month extra income? Matt helps me see that for all my complaints, I wouldn't give up my kids for the world, let alone a cleaner house or more time to hang out with friends. It just takes remembering that sometimes, I think. We truly have the sort of life that others are envious of; it's not the other way around.

My little pearls. However, it's hard to stay sentimental for long, because as I'm writing this, Jack has gotten himself stuck in Charlotte's walker. I'm torn between going and saving him (because he sounds somewhat frantic) and leaving him there for just a minute in the crazy (and unfounded) hope that he will actually learn not to do it again. While I was typing out my deliberations on the subject, however, he tipped it over himself and busied himself with his bubbles. Back into the trenches.

Ah, the morning nap. I love this time, when Charlotte is napping, because for a couple hours, I kinda feel like the mother of one again. I actually have time to do such luxurious things as...sitting down. Jack is running around in the backyard right now, wearing one shoe and trying to use his stocking foot to step on my young squash plants. I suspect that he received some clandestine encouragement on this front from Matt, who openly despises squash and would be thrilled to see the entire plant uprooted. Of course, as soon as I sat down to write more (after pulling Jack out of the garden and making a half-hearted attempt to find his shoe) Charlotte started crying upstairs.

The thing that regularly amazes me about Charlotte is how fast she is growing up. Jack spent a large portion of his first year posed for scrapbooks while I tracked his progress by comparing him to parenting books and my friend's children. Needless to say, it felt like about eighteen years had passed before he did anything at all. Charlotte, on the other hand, is quiet enough that I forget that she's there, and am only reminded when I have to pull her out from under a chair because...what?! Don't tell me she's crawling already! I feel like her life is one of those short films in which still pictures are placed in rapid succession. Frame by frame she started blinking, then smiling, then rolling over, then scooting around on her elbows. If something isn't done soon, she's going to be going to the prom in a few minutes.

Do these things come with slow motion buttons??